Although I practice hot yoga several times a week, one of the greatest benefits is the mindfulness I’ve gained when outside the hot room. The beautiful thing about life is that one never knows when yoga practice will transform into a life-challenge strategy.

A friend invited me to attend a monthly storytelling show at a popular venue. Due to recent thunderstorms, the torrential rains damaged the venue’s AC. Even though the repairman fixed the AC unit minutes before the show began, the space was still too warm for most people’s comfort–except for me.

As we lined up outside to pay, one of the producers handed out appetizer-sized paper plates to use as makeshift fans. I declined to take one. He assured me that I would need one. I insisted I wouldn’t.

Envision the air becoming cooler, I suggested to some people before the show began, but without hot yoga training, they fanned themselves in frustration. Throughout the entire show, I felt encapsulated within a bubble of calm, sitting among an audience of agitated energy. I witnessed warm air futilely whipped around with so much aggression, I wondered if the fanning action itself negated their cooling process.

During intermission, the so-called heat worked in my favor. While everyone else flocked outside for relief, I used the bathroom without having to wait in line. I even helped myself to water and made an ice water for my friend without any waiting.

Keeping my cool under the circumstances enhanced my viewing pleasure. As usual, I want to extend that calm mindfulness to other challenging situations. How much more enjoyable could my overall life be without figuratively fanning the flames?

I failed at the next opportunity I had to test my mindfulness. As much as I hate working on Saturdays, I love seeing the extra money deposited by the following Tuesday. Mindfulness went out the window when that money didn’t show up in my bank account. About the only thing I managed to hold onto was professionalism when I communicated both in written and verbal form.

After the bureaucratic run around with my supervisor, the payroll company and my bank, I gave the same supervisor I’d begun the whole process with a summary of my efforts, which had solved nothing. I tried to calm myself down with the thought that eventually, the situation would be resolved. That was my rational mind at work. My subconscious took over as I fought the conflict in my sleep.

And the next day, the money appeared.

The journey continues.

In this triple-digit summer heat, some may feel sluggish, gasping for breath in the humidity-filled air, wondering how anyone can logically doubt climate change when every summer seems to be the record-hottest.

Even those climate change-denying enthusiasts who hold up a snowball as they willfully mistake “weather” for “climate,” are part of the most insidious evil machinations known to our democracy: the rise of the middle manager.

Make no mistake. Middle managers don’t arrive at their position because they’re the best, the smartest or even the most logical. Their sole purpose of existence is to provide denial plausibility for upper management, while unleashing the most asinine policies onto the overworked, underpaid masses. And if you’re merely thinking of the present administration, I’m sorry to tell you this disaster has been in the making for several decades now. 

Unlike other epidemics, I cannot pinpoint a patient zero who infected all other workplaces, big and small, with this diabolical strain of middle managers. Those who get paid to regurgitate soul-zapping policies, which remind the huddled masses that the smallest man in the dick-comparing contest is in charge and must overcompensate by ramming the most logically-defiant practices down the throats of those who may risk a scream of protest.

Like any gang of moneyed thugs, upper management initiates the newest middle managers by giving them a hit list of bad shit to do to prove their loyalty. You’ll know exactly when the new bullshit hits. There’ll be this big announcement of congratulations to the newly minted middle manager. The company may even make some type of celebratory gesture. That’s merely the calm before the storm. 

There may not be any actual poison in your cup, but make no mistake, you’re gonna drink the Kool-Aid—at least until you find another job.  After a new middle manager’s jumped in, the mental and physical slow deterioration due to additional work-related stress starts to take its toll.

And the closer we get to the end of the world, the less sense the directives are going to make. It’s truly going to be a mad scramble to the death for the last of the available resources. And then what?

Will some brilliant woman Interstellar our way out of this shit? Will she even have enough autonomy and agency to do so? It’s bad enough that climate change deniers are hastening the end of the world, but these motherfuckers want to roll back women’s reproductive rights as well?! 

Because what we need at the end of the world and its dwindling resources is even more mouths to feed, more bodies to shelter, and more children without health care. And in order to save money, we’ll stop vaccinating. That way, as the world burns, all those diseases modern medicine eradicated can now thrive and we can invite an asshole to throw a snowball at it. I recommend a middle manager to do the deed. They’ve got great arm strength from all that illogical shit shoveling.

As the diminishing population of sane humans look around, scratching our heads and wondering, “How in the hell did we get HERE?” 

One middle manager promotion at a time.

As a call center agent, I’d normally be very aggravated over the low call volume experienced this week. I took Memorial Day Monday off because I’m a good boss to myself. I continued being good to myself by not setting an alarm to sound at 6:15, so I could rush through the morning routine in order to plant myself at my desk as close to 7 AM as possible.

Instead, I got my rest, woke up refreshed, and progressed through my morning routine unhurried, but also not taking my sweet time. That only took a few minutes longer for all the running around I used to do, thinking I was saving so much time.

I’d long ago adopted the habit of reading a variety of things in between calls, but for this week, partially inspired by the slowdown, I began watching educational videos about real estate investment in between calls.

Talk about being even more efficient with my time! Stopping and starting a video between calls. I previously thought that experience would be maddening. I couldn’t do it for Netflix binge-watching; however, this worked pretty well for educational videos, which I stop and start anyway to take notes.

Another beautiful thing was, while I took notes, I fantasized about one day setting up passive income through real estate investments. No more trading time for money!

A year ago, I stated I was living happily ever after since I worked from home and set my own schedule. Yet, I realized after awhile that I wanted to make money without trading my time for it.

There should always be something to strive for in life. This is my new financial goal. I’ve got plenty of creative ones. As soon as I get this latest one off the ground, I’m going to invest more time in my creative projects.

In the meantime, I’ll continue being more efficient with my time. Plus, I’ve applied for another telecommuting job where I set my own schedule. I won’t be able to multi-task with that job and it’s not as monetarily lucrative, but at least it’ll help me become a much faster typist and give me access to many different conversations, which helps with writing dialogue without the trouble of eavesdropping on people in public.

I imagine the afterlife for wonderful people as an eternity of doing what they loved doing while alive. For Brian, I picture lots of stunt driving, gourmet cooking, playing loud music, even louder laughing, snapping fingers at poignant statements and eating lots of pussy.

Is it just me, but didn’t he talk about cunnilingus a lot? As if it were part of a healthy heterosexual man’s nutritious diet. Couldn’t you just imagine THAT being one of the PSAs he did as a voice actor?

Poignant, humorous and entertainingly vulgar, Brian was the only other poet who said the word “fuck” more than I do.

I first met Brian several years ago during an open mic at Kickbutt Coffee one faithful evening. He was in his usual state–mind-altered, that is. After hearing him read, I invited him to perform at my show.

The very next day, Monday, January 18th, 2016, Brian sent me the following email:

Hi, Teresa – It’s Brian from Kick Butt Sundays. Interested in hearing about the journal you talked to me about. I’d also be interested in participating in one of your 2nd Sundays. So, clue a brother in on the details. Cheers, B

I replied:

Brian, Sounds like you’ve meshed two women together!  I’m the producer of the Austin Writers Roulette, a monthly, theme-inspired, adult storytelling and spoken word show and Janet is the editor in chief of an online magazine.  Anyway, here’s the link to find out more info about AWR: austinwritersroulette.com.  Hope you can make it one 2nd Sunday.  I’d love to have your unique storytelling voice join in with ours! Cheers, Teresa

He replied:

Yes, I did. My apologies. When you wake up after three hours of sleep and there’s a stack of business cards in your pocket – you kick yourself for not writing down on them because it makes one look like an ass (as I’ve just done to myself). Provided that I’m not working as a private chef on the 14th of Feb, I’d love to read at the roulette. I will see if I can submit shortly.

Well, Brian did follow through and you can view his first of many Roulette performances here at time stamp 3:35. And you can see all of his roulette performances after his February 14th, 2016 debut here.

RIP

Conventional wisdom states that practicing a difficult task more often will make that task easier. Well, I’ve discovered a variation on that theme through yoga.

I practice 5 times a week, but recently, I started taking a much more difficult type of yoga, ashtanga. Before ashtanga, the most difficult class I’d taken was intermediate Bikram class. After a few ashtanga classes, intermediate Bikram seemed comparatively easier.

The same was true for Inferno Hot Pilates. All those bridges and side planks were so killer until I joined Orange Theory. Since then, every pilates exercise became that much easier to do.

So, where I’m going with this is: how do I apply those lessons to other aspects in my life? I’m not merely looking to complicate things. I want an improvement in the quality of life through growing myself as a person.

The only reason those exercise classes that I started out with seem easier now is because I’ve improved my overall physical fitness through cross-training. I want to do that with both my art and financial situation.

Is the answer multiple revenue streams? How about leveraging? I already know that the more skills I have under my belt, the better off I should be in order to roll with the changing market.

My brief experience with working several meh jobs is that usually, with my fluctuating luck, they tend to hiccup at the same time, so I’m left scrambling. One thing that I’ve only recently embraced is to continually look for another job.

Over the past 6 years, I’ve read several books about starting a small business. In some way or other, they always talk about leverage. It’s not always about money. Whatever I don’t already know, I hire someone else who does in order to leverage their knowledge. Whatever I can’t do, I leverage someone else’s skills. And what I don’t have time to do, I leverage someone else’s time.

About the only thing I’m uncomfortable with is leveraging someone else’s money. Perhaps once I’m able to go through that door, I’ll start on a different journey altogether.

A few weeks ago, I hit the wall professionally as two technical glitches prevented me from making money for a week. I did a mad scramble job search, found something I liked, but the training for it was more than I bargained for.

In the meantime, all of my creative outlets have suffered in an effort to prepare for one lucrative opportunity while taking advantage of another less lucrative, but daily-pay opportunity.

Yet, I’m so pulled to be creative. Breaks my heart to put the creative things on the back burner because I have to be an adult. What I do know, from spending nearly 5 decades on this rock, there will never be the perfect time to do something great. I got to somehow squeeze all that in between doing other shit to survive.

Fortunately, I’ve surrounded myself with creative friends. At least when I take a pause from the rat race, I feel rejuvenated. Even though everything in this world is temporary, misery appears everlasting when amid the grind.

On one of the worst mornings since getting back on my financial feet, the two things that kept me going was my usual midday yoga class, then much later at night, hanging out with some poet/musician/tango friends.

The host for the evening started us out with music, featuring himself on oboe and guitar, and another musician on guitar. Those two, who love doing an impromptu collaborations, were absolutely fabulous. I wished someone was recording, but apparently all of us wanted to stay in the moment.

I originally was invited to read spoken word poetry. Instead, as soon as I walked in the door, I started handing out scripts for a short screenplay I’d written. I knew exactly who I wanted to cast and ended up reading one of the lead roles myself because I didn’t know many of the women who were there. As a matter of fact, the only other woman casted was another spoken word poet. All the other women were there to dance tango.

I could tell the host was nervous about us performing my screenplay. He did a couple of songs, followed by some other poets, then music again. Finally, almost reluctantly, we set up to read the screenplay.

There were only two mics for the 6 of us. The narrator and the bad guy both went without a mic, but were seasoned performers and projected without any problem.

This was the first time my screenplay was performed with an audience. Nonetheless, everyone, from the narrator to the 3-line actor, knocked it out of the ballpark. With the changes I’d made after the first table read, I only noticed minor changes that I wanted to make, thanks to the performance.

Since I knew I wouldn’t have time to rehearse with the actors prior to the performance, I did everyone the favor of having their lines highlighted, which everyone I handed a script to thanked me for doing. Once again, Virgo organization saves the day!

I’m so happy that the two biggest laughs came toward the end. As a matter of fact, I blew kisses at the audience for one of the big laughs. And without realizing it, I’d written a crowd-pleasing cheer at the very end, which all the actors did and the audience even joined in on. That spontaneity made me so happy. Even the host beamed at the big finish and he enjoyed playing the bad guy.

At this point, my game plan is to eventually work my schedule doing more wonderful interactions like that than working jobs I’m passionless about. After one more edit, I’m going to submit this screenplay to contests. Beyond that, I’m going to write another one. For my next project, I’ll do myself the favor and make it a series.

Freedom has a cost. The trajectory of my professional life has gone from being a secondary math and science teacher to an independent contractor who writes, edits and sales insurance on her own schedule from home. Along the way, some companies I’ve worked for have tried their best to recreate sweat-shop conditions in my home. For other companies, they’ve become less lucrative over time.

The latest variation of this theme originally sounded positive: Be patient.

Normally, if a situation has caused me to panic or be impatient, telling me to “be patient” wouldn’t be magical words that would suddenly alleviate my concern. Yet, I realized this latest technology glitch would eventually be resolved. And then it was announced that it was fixed, but I still experienced the same problem. Then another glitch compounded the problem.

The territory manager told me to be patient. Take some down time.

The only problem with that is that other people were still making money. I even asked which other money-making opportunities I could do within the company until the glitches were resolved.

Be patient.

I took matters into my own hands. I called my former supervisor in the department I’d just left to switch me back, which he did about 30 minutes later. It was all a matter of switching my automatic dialer from one job to another.

All the while, I’d been job searching for weeks, beginning with a copyediting job I saw in one of my favorite weekly publications. At that point, I had to do something I hadn’t done in a few years: update my resume.

Oh the anguish! I’d said I’d never do that bullshit again, which was precisely why I had to do it again. When will I ever learn not to tempt the devil?

To ease the pain of the process, which included typing up a cover letter, I sipped some Malbec. In the end, I dialed a lifeline and read my cover letter to a friend just to make sure it wasn’t just the wine talking.

To get more mileage, I applied to other writing/editing jobs. A few weeks later when the glitches hit, I looked into other telecommuting insurance jobs.

I was in damn near panic mode when, after a week of hardly making any money, the glitches still had not been addressed. Fortunately, when I returned to my former position, some things had improved.

I worked a few hours on a Saturday just to play catch up. I’d just paid the IRS and then spent a week barely making in money with the sage advice to just to be patient.

Ain’t that some shit? The person who told me to be patient would probably have had a much greater reaction than I if his ass went a week without making hardly any money. Yet, his pay wasn’t affected at all by the glitches. Plus, his “be patient” reply wasn’t truly something to comfort me or provide a solution. It was one of those trite comments people say when they’re not actually going to anything.

But like I said, freedom has a cost. To be free means to work the smartest hustle I can without even a thought of there being some knight in shining armor to rescue me. Honestly, I’d probably give him a hard time anyway.

One of my saving graces is being an academic. I’m nothing if not studious, so no matter how many times I have to reinvent myself or learn a new trick (or update my damn resume), it’s all in pursuit of remaining on the right side of evolution.

I’d never suffered from allergies until moving to Austin, TX. The first time I experienced severe allergies, I thought I had the flu. A friend gave me a clue about cedar fever. Using a combination of hot toddies and a neti pot, I recovered my voice and sinuses.

A year later, I started going to Bikram yoga. That hot yoga sweated out most toxins, including allergens, which kept everything in check.

Fast forward several years. My allergies flared up as if it was Year One in Austin. I discovered a few days later that an invasive species, zebra mussels, had infiltrated our water supply. I credited those creatures with my newest allergy symptom–a clogged left ear.

Periodically, my left ear opened and closed like a bivalve. Drops of hydrogen peroxide into the ear canal initially opened it. Then, I used my neti pot for my sinuses to attack the problem from the other side. Once the water problem cleared up, so did my ear.

Months later, strong winds turned up the air. All allergy suffers got anchored. Turns out, a clogged left ear was a new normal. I did my usual: Bikram, hydrogen peroxide, neti pot. Those things relived other symptoms, but not my ear. This time around, I broke down and got a new allergen weapon: garlic oil drops.

Originally, I thought I’d be cheap and make it myself, but when I looked at how to press my own oil and then buy an ear dropper especially for that purpose or a small container with a nozzle top for that use, hell, it was much easier to pay less than $10 for it already made and compounded with other good shit.

As I periodically coughed and blew my nose throughout the day, I saved the garlic drops for nighttime since there was a bit of a ritual involved. I had to lie sideways on my sofa, watching TV as a distraction since I couldn’t multitask while the drops were in my ear. Not really in my nature to merely watch TV. I usually eat or paint or sew or do anything other than allow the TV to entrance me.

So the drops relieved the pain, but did not unclog the ear. Apparently it’s an inside job. Like many other sinister things in life.

In my attempt to humor this on-going situation, I fancy that my left ear is the political one. Refusing to completely reopen due to all the bullshit swirling around the political arena. Perhaps that’s what it’s trying to do.

Somehow I got it in my head that 2019 would be the year I moved out of my long-time apartment with its ever-rising rent and buy a place of my own. Despite the fact that I’ve been underemployed since exiting the classroom. Teaching had grown into an experience where I’d felt trapped. My hair thinned out and my teeth gnashed at night. I knew merely remaining in the classroom because I cared about my students was not enough.

Yet, once a teacher, always a teacher. I saw every other job through an academic lens. Flitting from one company to the next, the first thing I realized was to learn as much as I could, then bounce. Another learned lesson in the gig economy: having one job was not enough.

Thanks to most major bills due monthly, I wrote out the numbers and concentrated on paying them. At one point, I had a $30/wk grocery budget. Nonetheless I managed to self-publish my second novel with the help of three part-time jobs, one of which became full-time. Somehow I’d scraped together the money to pay all the bills at the end of every month even though I still felt there was not enough.

At times, especially when I earned both an hourly salary and commission, I had some disposable income. During those rare times, I dared to dream. I’d publish a third book. Take another trip outside the States. I’d finally move out of my apartment, especially since I didn’t like the way the new leasing office staff ran things. I’d had enough.

Like clockwork, seasonal expenses came through: a flight home for Christmas, Christmas gifts, birthday gifts, 6-month car insurance bill twice a year, car inspection, yearly rent increase…I somehow managed. No matter how hard I applied myself at any new job, my lucrative moneymaking skills were not enough.

I read books in between calls as both a call center agent then as an independent health and life insurance agent. I wrote and painted whenever I found the time. Secretly embarrassed and ashamed of chronic underemployment, given how educated I was. Life was supposed to get better as you aged and matured and made more of the right choices. Somehow, despite all that I was doing, it was not enough.

So when I walked into the bank to handle a variety of tasks, one of which was to discover how big of a mortgage loan I could secure for a condo, I knew the answer already. I’d internalized the life lessons. The mortgage expert had complimented me on being out of debt and paying off everything at the end of every month. Yet, as he kept flipping through the last three tax returns (where 2016 didn’t actually count), I saw the calculations through his eyes. Not enough.